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Painful Lessons From My Heart

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This is a reflection on the love that once consumed me. A story of love, loss, and self-discovery – a journey that has left me scarred. I dreamt of him months before our eyes met. A vision that left an indelible mark - a soulful debt. When we finally connected, I felt an cosmic thrill, a sense of destiny that drew me in. The love felt new, exciting, and alluring – I was willing to give my all, and my heart kept enduring. As reality set in, cracks began to appear. Drug stories, the lies, the manipulation – it was a treacherous landscape, one that I thought I could navigate with caution, yet still, I fell. The memories of our time together still linger, a bittersweet reminder of love's tender pains. I've come to realize that my love is a double-edged sword. It's a love that gives without reserve, that pours out without hesitation. It's a love that's left me vulnerable, open to hurt and heartache, yet, it's also a love that's taught me resilience, and risin...

BOOB GLOOM

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My breast reduction story Like most people, I’ve always been critical about myself, more so about how I looked physically. This is particularly because I did not meet humanity’s presumed beauty standards . Dark, plump, chunky, and the famous- fat, are all the descriptions which I have gotten obligatory. Upon all my scuffles, I was only concerned with one body feature– and that is having large breasts. Now, this has been a test of time for sure. These are the struggles only women with big breasts understand; backaches, neck pains, fatigue, shortness of breath, infections below the breasts, trouble finding a bra size, costly bras, unsolicited attention, you name it. I’ve spent ample energy trying to figure out how to remedy my struggles and getting a breast reduction surgery was the only thing that made sense. According to: https://www.webmd.com/beauty/features/is-breast-reduction-right-for-you#1 Expert estimate extremely large breasts affect nearly 1 million women nationwide Photo by:...